Terms of Use

Educational use

THEM.YOU provides general educational information. It is not a substitute for personalized medical, psychological, legal or emergency advice.

No guaranteed outcome

Relationships involve more than one person's choices and circumstances. Using an exercise or guide cannot guarantee a particular response or outcome.

Intellectual property

Original text, design and illustrations are protected. You may quote brief excerpts with attribution and a link; republication requires permission.

Acceptable use

Do not use the site to violate another person's privacy, bypass security, disrupt service or misrepresent our educational content as individualized professional advice.

External links and services

THEM.YOU links to research organizations, safety resources and third-party services for context. A link does not make us responsible for an external site's availability, accuracy, privacy practices or transactions. Review the provider's own terms before sharing information or making a purchase.

Availability and changes

We may revise, move or withdraw content as the library develops, while aiming to preserve established public URLs whenever practical. We do not guarantee uninterrupted access or that every browser, network, advertising service or external link will work at all times.

Using examples responsibly

Sample phrases and exercises must be adapted to the actual relationship, age, culture and safety context. Do not use a framework to diagnose someone, pressure consent, excuse harm or replace emergency and professional support when it is needed.

Questions about these terms

Questions about licensing, permitted quotation or these terms can be sent to hello@them.you. Do not include confidential health, legal or relationship information in an ordinary email.

Related information

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