Privacy

Your reflections stay with you

Interactive check-in answers are calculated in your browser. This version of the site does not create accounts or send assessment answers to our server.

Basic server data

Like most websites, hosting infrastructure may process request details such as IP address, browser type, requested URL and time for security and reliability.

Advertising and Playwire

All or part of the advertising on THEM.YOU is managed by Playwire LLC. When its advertising services are active, Playwire and its partners may process device, browser and interaction data to deliver, measure and protect advertising, subject to applicable consent choices. Learn more at playwire.com/privacy-policy.

Contact

Questions about privacy can be sent to privacy@them.you.

Cookies and similar technology

The site itself does not require an account for reading or for the private relationship check-in. Advertising and affiliate partners may use cookies, local storage, pixels or comparable technology for attribution, fraud prevention, frequency control and measurement, subject to the consent tools available in your location.

Stay22 affiliate technology

THEM.YOU loads Stay22's LetMeAllez technology. It may recognize or transform eligible travel-related links so a referral can be attributed if a reader later makes a booking. Stay22 and participating travel providers may process referral, device and interaction information under their own privacy terms.

Push notifications

If you choose to allow browser notifications, THEM.YOU uses SDK4Push to manage the permission and subscription flow. The provider may process browser and device details, a push subscription token, delivery or interaction events and limited click-attribution information. You can deny the prompt or revoke notification permission at any time in your browser or device settings.

External services and retention

Third-party providers determine how long they retain information they process for advertising, affiliate attribution, security or legal compliance. THEM.YOU does not receive your private check-in answers. Server security logs may be retained for a limited operational period and then rotated according to hosting needs.

Your choices

You can use browser controls to restrict cookies, clear stored site data or use available consent settings. Blocking some third-party technology may affect advertising or attribution but should not prevent access to the editorial guides. Privacy requests should identify the service or page involved without including confidential relationship or health information.

Related information

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